Proverbs 17:14

New International Version

Starting a quarrel is like breaching a dam; so drop the matter before a dispute breaks out.

Your Encouragement

Going on the offensive is an excellent strategy for physical warfare. The most lethal blow is always the sneak attack. In relationships, however, it is destructive. You build distrust and dismantle confidence in one another. Worse of all, it is never-ending. No one takes a blow lying down. They fight back, not only to defend themselves but to win the battle and take control. And who does not salivate when power stares them in the face? So, when will it end if you do not invite Christ to reign over your heart and mind? But believe me. That is not a simple choice when adrenaline is pumping.

Proverbs 17:14 has this warning for us this morning.

“Starting a quarrel is like breaching a dam; so, drop the matter before a dispute breaks out.”

The Message puts it this way.

“The start of a quarrel is like a leak in a dam, so, stop it before it bursts.”

I do not know what you plan to do today because of your hurt and anger. Please close your eyes and take a deep breath. Ask yourself these questions.

Is it worth it? Is he or she worth it? Will it honor God? Is it not better for them to call me a weakling for the glory of Christ?

Paul asked the Corinthians concerning disputes in 1 Cor. 6:7-8.

“Wouldn’t it be far better to just take it, to let yourselves be wronged and forget it? All you’re doing is providing fuel for more wrong, more injustice, bringing more hurt to the people of your own spiritual family,” (The Message).

For Christ’s sake, it is more than worth it! So, stop it now before you flood your house with many uncontrollable woes.