Proverbs 13:16

New Living Translation (NLT)

Wise people think before they act;
    fools don’t—and even brag about their foolishness.

For Meditation

During their morning devotion, a wise grandfather shared a scripture with his eager grandchildren:

“I said in my haste, all men are liars” (Psa. 116:11). This scripture, often misunderstood, reflected David’s emotional state during a difficult time.

What is intriguing about this story is the grandfather’s remark about the scripture.

“David might have said this in his haste; but if he had taken time to think about it deeply, he couldn’t have come nearer the truth. He wouldn’t have had any reason to change his mind,” he said. How true the irony is that the truth spoken in haste could be disconcerting, as David’s many accusers and disappointing promisers of help in his affliction. However, in Proverbs 13:16, Solomon contrasts two people in their responses to situations in ways that reflect their character.

“Wise people think before they act; fools don’t—and even brag about their foolishness.”

The contrast is clear and highlights the consistency of knowledge and character. The wise person’s character aligns with their wealth of knowledge. They have trained themselves to fear God through His word (Prov. 1:7), hiding it in their hearts so that they will not sin against Him (Psa. 119:11). Their character reflects their knowledge of God’s word. That is why Hosea says, “My people are destroyed for lack of knowledge” (Hos. 4:6).

When issues arise, the wise observe before commenting. They do not just interject into a discussion. They are prudent with their opinions and not eager to show off their knowledge. Instead, they show caution in their consideration, conclusion, and judgment. As James says, everyone should be quick to hear, but slow to speak and to be angry (Jas. 1:19).

Such a person is astute and can assess people and situations, using the knowledge gained to their advantage. Facts must come together before acting in a manner that affects a situation.

People like that are also shrewd, understanding that silence is an asset if their ignorance must remain their guarded secret. Therefore, they wait to understand the issues before speaking. They are judicious in judgment and condemnation until they’ve heard from everybody and connected every piece of evidence before speaking. They do not want to be put to shame when a credible witness takes the stand (Prov. 18:17).

Solomon vividly contrasts such a wise person with the fool, who thinks they know it all and is hasty to display their knowledge. Why seek additional information when they have it together? Such a person is unteachable, lacks self-control and discipline, and frowns on good counsel.

I pray you will listen to King Solomon and maintain an excellent witness before people and God’s honor. Always act with knowledge but never in haste, and may you never expose your folly in front of people by being presumptuous!

Pray with Me

Father, help us show restraint until your Spirit adequately informs and reveals the mind of Christ on every issue before I speak or act, for your honor and praise, amen.

Shalom